Self-Denying Truth
A truth that contradicts itself—which undoes itself as soon as it is spoken. Examples: “The religious belief which unites us so securely is in fact a useful falsehood.” “The reason we have such a loving relationship is that you remind me of my mother.” “We have compulsory games at this school in bitter winter weather because it makes you boys philosophical.” “The Lord Chancellor has announced that the office of Lord Chancellor has been abolished.”
It is a matter of acknowledging the limits of what we can say without destroying the truth in the process: you can kill an insight by analysing it, a god by naming him, love by telling it:
Never seek to tell thy love
Love that never told can be;
For the gentle wind does move
Silently, invisibly.
I told my love, I told my love,
I told her all my heart,
Trembling, cold, in ghastly fears—
Ah, she doth depart.
Soon as she was gone from me
A traveller came by
Silently, invisibly—
Oh, was no deny.
William Blake, Never Seek to Tell thy Love, 1793.S18
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