Cupboard Love
A practical motivation which helps to sustain loving relationships. To be too explicit about it is, of course, quickly destructive, but what you get from a relationship doesn’t have to be material. It may be exchanges of social, emotional or intellectual stimulation, an occasional laugh, cheerfulness, encouragement, company, courtesy, good faith, love . . . But material reciprocity helps, and gifts, especially of food, are central to social bonding. In the future, fiercely powerful bonds of friendship and loyalty will be unconditionally necessary. They will be sustained and deepened for many reasons, including material ones.
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